The “Teen” Commandments of Parenting

Communication with teens is notoriously difficult for many parents, but by following some simple guidelines, the "teen commandments", you can help to break down the communication barrier for more effective parenting. If you can reach an agreement with your teen on these guidelines, both your life and theirs should be a lot easier.
The first commandment is that they will not slam any doors regardless of the situation. Also, they will not use the word "why" unnecessarily, and will not return empty containers to the cabinets or fridge. A good rule of thumb for parents is to praise their teens in public, and save the criticism for private conversations. When they really screw up, this is the time when they need their parents the most, and yes, you do have to tell them the same thing a thousand times so you just have to accept that fact.